02 Covenant and the Bride of Christ in Ephesians

 

Copyright © 2022 Michael A. Brown


      When we read carefully through the New Testament epistles, one of the things that may strike us quite markedly is the lack of explicit teaching on the theme of covenant, particularly in relation to Gentile believers.  Although the epistle to the Hebrews does develop this theme, it was addressed to early Jewish Christians and it deals with covenant mainly from an apologetic point of view, in order to make clear the inadequacy and failure of the old Mosaic covenant, and to emphasise the supremacy and finality of Christ as high-priest and mediator of the new covenant.  Apart from this, the rest of the New Testament epistles do not develop this theme at all.[1]

      The apostle Paul was Jewish, he was thoroughly trained in the Scriptures, and so he was steeped in the knowledge of the covenants of God with Israel.  Covenantal thinking was foundational and central to his life.  However, the paramount need to develop task theology in his epistles as he addressed developing issues in the many different fledgling churches of his day, would perhaps explain why he did not give time and space to explicit teaching on the theme of covenant.[2]  Nevertheless, with his hebraic mindset, this theme would never have been far from his mind!

      Modern students have traditionally been taught to approach the interpretation of Paul’s epistles through the lens of historical theological systems which invariably failed to recognise Paul’s hebraic mindset.  These theological systems were developed by Gentile Christian theologians who were strongly influenced in their own day by inherited Greek philosophical worldviews, perhaps unconsciously so, and also by replacement theology whose rejection of all things Jewish caused them to have a blind spot regarding Paul’s hebraic mindset.

      However, it is my belief that, even though Paul wrote his epistles in Greek, yet much of his teaching is pervaded by hebraic thought.  He certainly does occasionally employ hebraisms in his writing which many Gentile Christian readers today may not readily discern in their modern translations, and therefore they remain unaware of them.  This suggests that we would do well to study Paul’s epistles from a hebraic perspective, and, furthermore, that doing so will yield treasures of insight which traditional western theological systems fail to uncover.  In particular, it would demonstrate how the theme of covenant implicitly pervades some of Paul’s teaching.

      Working from such a hebraic perspective, this chapter suggests how the theme of covenant undergirds the epistle to the Ephesians, even though it is not explicitly mentioned anywhere in this epistle.  As we all know, the motif of the bride of Christ is certainly employed by Paul in Ephesians 5:25-33, but traditional theological understandings have invariably failed to see how he develops the theme of covenant through this epistle as a whole.  The sections below suggest how this theme is indeed implicit in much of what he teaches.


1.     Chosen: selected from among the many

‘For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight.’ (Eph. 1:4)

      As a young man grows into adulthood, his heart inevitably begins to seek a soulmate for life.  So he casts his eye around among all the available young women, and as he gets to know some of them socially over time, he falls in love with one in particular.  The young man then seeks to form a deeper relationship with this young woman in the hope that she will eventually become his bride.  Out of all the females he knows, he chooses this special one.  Slowly, slowly, she receives his love and responds to it.  Her heart opens and she begins to love him too.  In some cultures, this process differs in that the bride is chosen for the young man by his parents, reflecting the biblical order of God the Father choosing a bride for his Son (cf. Gen. ch.24).

      Although those who hold to reformed theology like to make much of the words ‘chosen,’ ‘elect’ and ‘predestined’ (see also below), this has often led into a decretive, rigid and clinical concept of God’s nature, certainly on the part of Calvinists.  This has caused many believers to question and even doubt the truly loving nature of God’s character, consequently leading to confusion and even divisiveness in the body of Christ.  Perhaps therefore it might be more helpful to view Paul’s use of these terms through the hebraic lens of covenant, and specifically in the light of the concept of marriage.

      The Greek verb eklegomai which is used in v.4 does not simply mean ‘to choose.’  It literally means ‘to select,’ ‘to make a choice,’ and therefore ‘to choose out from among,’ implying a specific choice from among many.  This is clearly apposite to the concept of God choosing a bride for his Son.  We are not simply ‘the elect or chosen ones of God.’  In his love, God selected and chose us as a bride for his Son, Jesus Christ.  He loved us, and then by grace set into motion the process whereby he could redeem us and then form us into this bride.

      For our part, as we hear the gospel message, we respond to God’s love shown and demonstrated towards us in Christ.  We receive him and we embrace his love, and we enter into a loving relationship with him.  Our heart then becomes increasingly his as we grow in this mutual love.

‘The Lord did not set his affection on you and choose you because you were more numerous than other peoples, for you were the fewest of all peoples.  But it was because the Lord loved you…' (Deut. 7:7-8)

‘We love him because he first loved us.’ (1 John 4:19 AV)


2.     Predestined: planning for the future

‘…predestined according to the plan of him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will…’ (Eph. 1:11)

      Having chosen his special one, and particularly when their relationship begins to blossom, the young man then naturally begins to think, hope and plan for their future together.  His intention is to one day marry this special girl.  He wants her to be his, and so he begins to think and plan accordingly.  In his heart, in fact in both of their hearts, he/they see it as their destiny to be together, and so they begin to map out their future in order to realise this destiny.  In many cultures, the parents are often also involved in this planning.

      Although the concept of predestination is used in vv.4-5 of God’s loving intention to adopt us as his sons through Christ, yet this also applies to us as the bride of Christ.  A priori, those who are true sons of God are also the bride of Christ.  These are simply two different motifs applied to the same people.

      The verb proorizein used in vv.5,11 means ‘to predetermine,’ or, more literally, ‘to mark out the boundaries of something beforehand,’ and therefore ‘to appoint’ or ‘to specify.’  So the underlying concepts are those of expressing intent and of drawing up specific plans about something.  It is to map out a planned intention for the future.  Just as with the verb eklegomai above, this verb proorizein sits well with the covenantal concept of marriage.  God plans and maps out his desired intention for the bride he has chosen for his Son, and he then follows this up by redeeming her and bringing her into covenant relationship with Christ.

      I do not believe that more needs to be made of this word ‘predestine.’  It simply expresses the fact that God plans his intention beforehand, and then works to bring about the fulfilment of this intention.  This word is also used in Romans 8:29 ‘For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son.’  Again, its usage here simply expresses the fact that, in his love, God plans and maps out beforehand a glorious eternal destiny for those he has chosen and who receive his Son.


3.     Redeemed: the bride-price has been paid

‘In him we have redemption through his blood.’ (Eph. 1:7)

      In many ancient cultures, and still even today in some present-day cultures, it was the tradition for the bridegroom-to-be to pay a sum of money to the bride’s father.  This was called the bride-price.  So he effectively buys his bride from her family.  Because his heart is fixed on her, he is willing to wait even a long time in order to save up enough money to get her and make her his own.  Upon payment of this bride-price, an agreement is made between the two families regarding the relationship between the two young people.  She then belongs to the bridegroom, and she will become a new member of his family.

      Jesus paid the bride-price to set us free from our sin and to make us his bride.  He was willing to do whatever was needed, to pay the full price that was necessary in order that we might become his.  So in his love, he gave himself up for us (Eph. 5:25).  He redeemed us by his blood, and we now belong to him.  We are his possession, and we become a member of his heavenly family.  He did not redeem us with silver or gold, but with himself.  He shed his own blood and gave his own life, that we might become his.  When we receive what he did for us, then we enter into a new covenant relationship with him.

‘For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you by your forefathers, but with the precious blood of Christ…’ (1 Peter 1:18-19)

‘…until the redemption of those who are God’s possession.’ (Eph. 1:14)

‘You are not your own; you were bought at a price.’ (1 Cor. 6:19-20)


4.     Sealed: engaged to Christ

‘Having believed you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession…’ (Eph. 1:13-14)

      The engagement of two young adults, male and female, is always a significant event.  Although in the West it is often seen simply as affirmation of their desire to get married, in many other cultures it carries far more significance.  More than simply the joining of two young adults, it is seen as the joining of their two families and even as the creation of a new and much broader social network between their two extended families.  This is why the breaking off of an engagement at any stage can bring so much stress and shame to a family, because it affects so many other people.

      Seen in this way, engagement is the significant step in the development of a relationship, even more so in some ways than the marriage ceremony itself.  This step is taken with the knowledge and agreement of both sets of parents, and it is sealed through the giving of a ring to the bride which she then wears openly.  This ring is an ever-present reminder of the love and covenant commitment the couple have made with each other.  She is his, and he is hers.  Engagement is viewed by everyone concerned as full intention to marry.  The young man and the young woman are then marked out socially as belonging to each other, and the whole of their respective extended families recognise and affirm this openly.  So the marriage later on is now guaranteed.  Although the young couple have not yet been through their wedding ceremony and given their vows to one another, nor received their actual wedding certificate, yet the social joining of the couple has been accomplished and it is already considered a done deal.  The later wedding ceremony simply puts the icing on the cake, as it were, and then the couple may live together.

      Seen in this light, engagement in western cultures has lost much of its significance.  It is too often approached more in a ‘let me try you on and see if you fit’ kind of way, or simply as a trial marriage which can then be broken off if either partner no longer wants it.  So it has lost the kind of deeper meaning and significance described above which it still holds in many non-western cultures.

      Having received Christ and become believers, we have entered into a covenant relationship with him.  This living relationship is empowered by the Holy Spirit who indwells us.  Two words are used in Ephesians 1:13-14 to describe the Holy Spirit: ‘seal’ and ‘deposit.’

      Firstly, the Greek verb shpragizein meant to stamp with a signet or private mark as a seal of ownership. So we have been sealed in Christ, or ‘marked in him with a seal.’  In a similar way, sheep farmers today mark their sheep with coloured dye to distinguish them from those of neighbouring farmers which have a different colour.  Hence, the Holy Spirit’s presence within us marks us out as belonging to Christ.  We are his possession.

      Secondly, the Greek word arrhabon is often rendered as ‘a deposit,’ i.e. a down payment which guarantees completion of the payment at a later date.  It was part of the purchase money or property given in advance as security for the rest.  So the presence of the Holy Spirit in our life is God’s way of confirming to us that ‘the rest of your inheritance is now guaranteed to come your way at a later stage.’  It is proof in the present of what is to come later in the future.  Therefore, our inheritance in Christ is securely guaranteed!

      However, a related form of this word was used in everyday life to mean ‘an engagement ring.’  So the Holy Spirit is also our engagement ring, given to us as a promise and guarantee of the wedding to come.  Therefore, we are now engaged to Christ, and we belong to him.  We are his bride-to-be.


5.     Made known: the bride is revealed

‘His intent was that now, through the church, the manifold wisdom of God should be made known to the rulers and authorities in the heavenly realms, according to his eternal purpose which he accomplished in Christ Jesus our Lord.’ (Eph. 3:10-11)

      After the bride-price has been paid and the agreement has been made between the two families, the next step is to announce and make known the good news to everyone that the couple are engaged.  That the young man now has a fiancée, that she has a fiancé, and that they are now joined together.  There is a new bride-to-be in town!  So people get to know: the family members, the relatives, and the wider social circle.  Everyone talks, and soon the whole town has heard the good news.

      When the new church community came into being, a new entity which had never existed in this world before, the bride of Christ, came into being.  The Father’s purpose of creating a bride for his Son became known openly.  So the bride of Christ was revealed and declared to the world, and in particular to the spiritual rulers and authorities in the heavenly realms.

      The bride gradually learns to walk in the self-confidence of her new identity in Christ and to live openly as his bride.  When the devil tries to attack or discourage her, she can lift up her voice boldly and tell him where to go.  She is not afraid to let him know that she knows exactly who she is in God’s sight!  Although in the present time the bride of Christ is very imperfect, yet she carries the name and presence of her Beloved.  She is identified everywhere and by everyone in this world as belonging to him.  We live in this world in the present age in our distinct identity as the bride of Christ.


6.     Living differently: openly honouring our relationship with our Beloved

‘So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking.’ (Eph. 4:17)

      Being engaged (and married, of course) brings a young woman into a new social status.  It marks her transition from one kind of living into another, so it re-defines her social relationships, be it in relation to her fiancé, his family, or her wider social network.  It defines who she is, and whose she is, so she is now expected to behave as someone who is engaged (or married), especially in public.  The ring she wears shows that the bride-to-be belongs exclusively to her fiancé and not to anyone else.  So she should honour her new relationship with her beloved and his family, and therefore behave towards other people in a way which is considered appropriate.  Her new commitment is to her beloved, and this commitment now defines her life.  She is expected to be pure and faithful, so playing around and flirting with other people is highly inappropriate and wrong.  To dishonour her fiancé and his family, or to betray him by going with someone else, is to bring shame on herself, on him and on them.  In many cultures, this is met with a stern response, separation or even worse.

      The apostle Paul insists that as believers we should honour our relationship with Christ openly in the way we live and in how we relate to others.  In Christ, we have a new social identity, and we are bearers of his name.  We are engaged to him as his bride-to-be.  So the Lord expects and insists that we walk according to this new identity, and therefore live before others as Christians ought to live.  Our faith should be reflected in the way we live.  We should not bring shame on the name of Christ by the way we live or behave.  Our identity as the bride of Christ determines the way we live not just in relation to Christ, but also in relation to the world.  In this world, we ought to live exclusively for Christ.  This is Paul’s underlying thinking in many of the practical exhortations in his epistles, particularly in regard to sexual morality.  We need to repent thoroughly from old patterns of sinful behaviour and move on from some of our old associations.

      It is clear from Paul’s two epistles to the Corinthians that the believers in Corinth were experiencing the operation of the charismatic gifts of the Holy Spirit in their meetings, and Paul related this to the functioning of the body of Christ.  However, the fact that there was so much ongoing disorder amongst them shows that they still had little or no understanding of what it meant to live practically as the bride of Christ.  Paul rebuked them strongly over this! (1 Cor. chs.12,14; 2 Cor. 11:2-3, 12:20-21).

‘I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.’ (2 Cor. 11:2)


7.     The bride of Christ: deep inward spiritual union with our Beloved

‘“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”  This is a mystery – but I am talking about Christ and the church.’ (Eph. 5:31-32)

      The aim and culmination of engagement is the covenant of marriage.  In this covenant, affirmed openly and publicly by the mutual giving of vows, the young man and woman give themselves completely to each other, as fully as two people can do.  The mutual giving of vows implies God’s intention in the inseparability of this union.  This inseparable giving over of oneself to the other means that marriage is not a contract which can be torn up, and neither should it be conceived of in terms of ‘easy come easy go’ cohabitation.  No, it is a covenant, and this is the only way in which marriage can be fully understood and experienced as God intended.  The image of God in humankind is found most fully in the binding together of male and female in the covenant of marriage, and only in this way.

      The union between male and female, becoming ‘one flesh,’ does not simply imply intimate physical union, it is also a union of two spirits, two hearts and two minds.  Through their mutual love, the two partners are bound together in spiritual union at the deepest level within themselves, and in every other way too.  It is the deepest of all human soul bonds.  The Hebrew word dabaq used of being ‘united’ literally means ‘to be glued together.’  So the two partners become one.  Although they outwardly remain two people, yet they have become one through their deep inward union.  Over time, of course, this leads to the two partners knowing each other and being known by each other in every possible way.  Furthermore, this binding together of male and female in union as ‘one flesh’ is the beginning of the creation of a new social unit, a family.  The passion and intimacy of this union produces fruit as children are conceived and born.

      In Ephesians 5:25-32, we find the heart of what it means to be the bride of Christ.  The model of the husband-wife covenant relationship in creation is given to us to illustrate God’s intention in the relationship between Christ and the church.  In the same way that there is a deep inward spiritual bond between husband and wife, as believers we are bound intimately together with our Beloved deep within our spirit through his Spirit who dwells within us.  We are united with Christ, and we have become one with him: we are in Christ, and Christ is in us.  And again, just as with husband and wife, this gives us our essential and primary identity as a Christian: we are the bride of Christ.

      God expects us to live in the light of this identity.  He is our Head, just as the husband is the head of the wife.  In his deep love for us, he gives himself utterly for us: he cares for us, provides for us, and nourishes us faithfully.  In response, through our growing love for him, we freely submit to and follow him.  Our heart’s desire is for him.  As the traditional marriage vow says: we love, honour and obey him.  We are his and we belong to him, so we wash ourself daily with the water of his word, keeping ourself pure and holy, separated unto him.  As with any loving bride, we want Christ our divine husband to be pleased with us, so we endeavour to remain without stain or blemish.  We seek to do what pleases him, because we want him to be happy with us (Eph. 5:10).  And we also try to keep ourself looking radiant for him, or, as the underlying Greek says, looking gorgeous for him, with the radiance of the Holy Spirit’s presence shining through us.

‘For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready.’ (Rev. 19:7)

‘I made my vow to you and entered into a covenant with you… and you became mine.’ (Ezek. 16:8 ESV)

‘But whoever is united with the Lord is one with him in spirit.’ (1 Cor. 6:17)

‘My beloved is mine and I am his.’ (Song 2:16)


8.     Undying love: living happily ever after

‘Grace to all who love our Lord Jesus Christ with an undying love.’ (Eph. 6:24)

‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.’ (Heb. 13:5)

      A couple whose hearts are bound in union together, and who therefore truly love each other, are a happy couple.  They seek daily to be with one another, because they love and enjoy each other.  Although their love may not be perfect, yet it grows by walking together through all the varying situations and challenges of life.  As the years go by, and as they experience more of their love for one another, their mutual love deepens and matures, and they become secure in it.

      Similarly, God’s intention in Christ is for us to become increasingly bound with him deep within ourself, and therefore to experience and to live consistently in the intimacy of his deep love for us.  It is for us to enjoy living daily in our love relationship with him throughout our life, and to be free and happy as believers.  A Christian life, which is lived in the presence and power of the Holy Spirit, is never boring.  It can and should be enjoyed, because it is a relationship with Christ which is rooted in genuine mutual daily love.  So we should seek to spend time with him, we should walk with him, and we should linger with him.

      We grow deeper in God’s love as we see it displayed in the way he provides for us and sees us through the challenges of life.  We have the assurance that if God gave up his own Son for us, then he will certainly give us all that we need in life (Rom. 8:32).  The repeated use of the word ‘never’ in Hebrews 13:5 suggests that the words of this verse are more akin to a vow than simply being a promise.  God will always meet our needs, because he will remain unchangeably faithful to the word he has given; he cannot deny himself.  So we should resolve to go through life’s challenges by walking together with the Lord, holding his hand throughout, and learning any lessons that he might want to teach us.  We can endure to go through challenges with God, because we know that he loves us.  And just as with any married couple, when we have come through such challenges in life, we will find that we have grown closer to Christ, and our relationship with him will have become deeper.

      God’s first and foremost desire for us is that we walk in the enjoyment of his love, not simply that we work for him.  Everything we do ought to come out of our love for him.  We obey him, because we love him.  We seek to do what pleases him, because we love him.  To be blossoming, growing and maturing in our relationship with God is to be growing in love, both for him and for one another.

‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.’ (Deut. 6:5)

‘And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge – that you may be filled to the measure of all the fulness of God.’ (Eph. 3:17-19)

‘If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching.  My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him.’ (John 14:23)

‘God is love.  Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him.  In this way, love is made complete among us…’ (1 John 4:16-17)

 

 

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[1] Apart from the epistle to the Hebrews, other explicit references to ‘covenant’ such as in Romans 11:27 and Galatians 3:17 are not developed.

[2] The phrase ‘task theology’ refers to the application of theological truth to practical issues in the life of individuals and church life.

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